Personally, if a T doesn't want / isn't willing to attend then I would.

That said, a LL may not be local to their asset(s) which would make this problematic. An Agent would [supposedly] ease this.

BillDoor,

Based upon what yuou have put, your T has decided to sour the relationship. They clearly have an expectation of you that either wasn't there in the first place or unreasonable. I wouldn't loose any sleep over it. My wife used to get all bent out of shape over trying to please Ts as they had become friends. The friendship quickly dissappated from their side when the 'concierge' service ceased.