h_bedwell
25-03-2008, 20:13 PM
I am so glad I found this site and would greatly appreciate any advice I can get on my situation
In August I took on a 12 month tenancy with a friend who, like me, is a single mother of one on income support in receipt of housing benefit, so we could co-rent a house together.
We moved in on 1st September and by the end of October she had refound the 'love of her life' on the internet. She went to visit him at his home in Hertfordshire (we live in Essex) early November, then went back on the 15th November for a couple of days. Then she disappeared, and didn't make contact with me again until the first week of january.
Since then she has been here and paid her share of the rent (late and under protest)
The problems are that in the 7 month period we have been here she has only paid £60 towards bills (and they were only for her phone call charges to her now 'fiance') and is refusing to pay any of the utility arrears that I am struggling to pay. Not only that, but she is helping herself to mine and my son's food. The reason being that she needs her money either for her own travle to hertfordshire, or to pay her fiance's travel here cos he has no money. She currently has him coming to stay frequently, both on his own and sometimes with his 6-year old daughter, which I think is benefit fraud (?) as she is on income support and I am concerned that I could be in trouble as her housemate.
And the main problem is she only tidies up when he is coming to visit. The house looks like a pig sty as she is incapable of washing up or tidying or cleaning and its so bad my friends feel ill in the house. She is unable to do too much housework, as she is now 3 months pregnant with his child
Please please help because I realy don't know what I can do. I want to ask her to leave, but my dad is our joint guarantor and I have no idea about the legal implications for him
Any help would be very very greatfully received
In August I took on a 12 month tenancy with a friend who, like me, is a single mother of one on income support in receipt of housing benefit, so we could co-rent a house together.
We moved in on 1st September and by the end of October she had refound the 'love of her life' on the internet. She went to visit him at his home in Hertfordshire (we live in Essex) early November, then went back on the 15th November for a couple of days. Then she disappeared, and didn't make contact with me again until the first week of january.
Since then she has been here and paid her share of the rent (late and under protest)
The problems are that in the 7 month period we have been here she has only paid £60 towards bills (and they were only for her phone call charges to her now 'fiance') and is refusing to pay any of the utility arrears that I am struggling to pay. Not only that, but she is helping herself to mine and my son's food. The reason being that she needs her money either for her own travle to hertfordshire, or to pay her fiance's travel here cos he has no money. She currently has him coming to stay frequently, both on his own and sometimes with his 6-year old daughter, which I think is benefit fraud (?) as she is on income support and I am concerned that I could be in trouble as her housemate.
And the main problem is she only tidies up when he is coming to visit. The house looks like a pig sty as she is incapable of washing up or tidying or cleaning and its so bad my friends feel ill in the house. She is unable to do too much housework, as she is now 3 months pregnant with his child
Please please help because I realy don't know what I can do. I want to ask her to leave, but my dad is our joint guarantor and I have no idea about the legal implications for him
Any help would be very very greatfully received